Money can create tension in even the healthiest relationships. Here are five common sources of conflict and ways to manage them:

1. Supporting Adult Children: One partner wants to keep helping; the other wants them to be independent. Set clear expectations together.
   
2. Inheritance Decisions: Differing views on what’s “fair” can lead to conflict. Discuss values openly and consider working with a professional.
   
3. Spending Habits: One prefers saving, the other enjoys spending. A shared budget can help align your priorities.
   
4. Hidden Spending: Secrets around money damage trust. Regular, honest check-ins can prevent small issues from growing.
   
5. Conflicting Goals: One of you may focus on lifestyle, the other on long-term savings. Define shared goals so both feel heard.
   

Disagreements happen. The goal isn’t perfection, it’s staying on the same page and working as a team.